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Please keep my details private. I am married to a good man but I fear he may change if something is not done. Our marriage is going to be 9 years in July. We are blessed with two girls and a boy. When we met, my husband used to tease me about my small body. I am petite. But he would say, he likes petite girls cos when they get pregnant, then they will become curvy and nice.

I used to wonder what kind of statement was that. And to be honest, I know my body features are small but I have done everything I can to add some flesh and curves to no avail. I had to start looking forward to marriage and pregnancy to do the trick. I had my first, second and third child and you wont believe I am even married talk less of having a baby yet my body is still the way it is.

Some women envy my body for remaining status quo but my husband does not like it. Last year, he told me that he wants me to consider surgery especially for breast enlargement. That I look like a kid with my body. I felt hurt cos he knew how my body was when he married me. He was attracted to my petite nature, maybe he was waiting for me to grow curves but my body make up is different and I cannot change that.

I told him how disappointed that he was body shaming me and he said its not body shaming, that he likes curves and b00b$. That he does not want to be tempted by women with full package, that is why he wants me to go for surgery since I don’t have it naturally. I considered this for months. I watched several videos of how these plastic surgeries are done and I got more scared.

When I told my sister, she told me not to try it cos it could be fatal. Yes, some people do it successfully but many also die or have complications. So, I made up my mind not to do it. Early this year, my husband reminded me to do the surgery and I told him I will not and if he does not love me the way I am,he can do what he likes. He said are you sure? I didn’t answer him cos I was hurt and pained by his lack of consideration.

I started to see my husband begin to like pictures of curvy women in IG and Facebook. I know he was doing that to get to me. So, I unfollowed him on social media. Two months ago, I saw chats he has with a lady. He usually passwords his phone but I know he wanted me to know he was cheating so he left it in a way that I would see it and I saw it.


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