Before anybody reading this would judge me for being a fool, kindly allow me tell you all a bit about myself:
I am 67 years of age and until six months ago, I was a bubbly woman full of health and looking forward to living up to 90 years. Before my diagnosis came in and I found out I had just a few months to live.
I was born into a large, polygamous home where bickering, jealousy, hatred and maliciousness was the order of the day. My mother was a trader and she imbibed in me the art of buying and selling coupled with a high sense of negotiation to get the best deals possible in any business dealings I entered into.
So from when I became 16, I had already mastered how to make money and had more money than even those older than me can only imagine.
THE ONLY AREA OF MY LIFE I DIDN’T SEEM TO HAVE ANY FORM OF JOY WITH OR FROM WAS MY LOVE LIFE.
There was a point in my life when I felt that probably God didn’t want me to have money and enjoy love too.
Why do I say so?
Well, how many women would you find in this world who would lose their v’rg!nit!y at age 16 through double r@p3 by two of their uncles who were in their forties?
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How many women would fall in love with the man of their dreams and find out three months into the relationship that he was only with them because he had a bet with her best friend to sleep with her and collect money from her so they could share? I was 19 at this time.
How many women can say that they have experienced being passed around amongst friends, 7 in total, without her knowledge they were friends and had talked about her and shared her innermost secrets amongst themselves? I was 26.
I fell in love with Wunmi when I was 32. In fact, I met him when I had gone to an eatery to have some fun alone on my birthday since I had no man in my life then. He had waltzed his way into my life and heart and mesmerized me into finally letting down my guard.
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