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He said the wife always begs for a second chance and asks for forgiveness but when she does it again, she blurted out that he is not satisfying her and that he pushed her to cheat. I felt sorry for this man…he clearly loves his wife but he felt hurt by her saying he cannot satisfy her.
I asked him if they can see a therapist and he said he does not know anyone. I promised him to help get him the contact of one that can help when I get to Lagos. We talked until 2.30 am. We got up and went to our separate bedrooms. 30 minutes later, he showed up at my door and said he wanted to thank me for listening to him earlier.
I told him it was fine….he didn’t have to come thank me…but he was a mess…he was emotionally down and he looked like he wanted to cry and before I knew it…he was crying. I felt so sorry for him. I let him inside my room and I have never seen a grown man crying as he did for almost 10mins.
He looked at me and was like Lara (not real name) I just need someone to hold me and tell me everything was going to be ok…that I am man enough. It was impulse…I couldn’t help but be there for him…after all…he is like family right…I held him and he held on to me tight…crying and me telling him everything will be alright.
And then he began to c@r3ss me…I thought he was just still crying but by the time he was bringing his face to mine…he was ready to k!$$ me…I said no…no, no no…stop it and he was like please Lara…don’t push me away …no one wants me…how do I ever feel like a man again … I tried to tell him we can’t do anything cos it would be wrong but he said some words like…he just wants to feel ok just for one night.
