Please I need your advise. Its between me and my woman. You see,we met last year and I expressed my interest in her. She lives in Benin,while I work in Lagos. I helped her get a job in Lagos here and she move in with her relative here too.
After a while,around February this year,she said she cannot stay with that relative anymore because they are being mean to her and treating her bad. So I begged my elder step-sister allow her stay with her and her family.
The only other option would have been for her to come and stay with me but I know my family will not allow that. So,my sister agreed to accommodate her until we get married in October this year.
However,since she moved into my sister’s house,its been one issue or another. First,my sister complains that my woman wears revealing clothes around her house. My sister is a born again and does not like people wearing trouser around her not to talk of revealing clothes.
I talked to my girl and she promised to adjust. Then,she complain that my woman does not assist her in cooking,I talked to her again,she adjusted. In short,my sister complained about one thing or another and when she does,I talk to my woman and she always try to adjust.
So,because my woman comes back earlier from work before my sister,she would assist her in cooking dinner and serving her husband and her children,my sister used to appreciate that until she started getting jealous that her husband is becoming too friendly with my woman.
I really dont know what her issue is and all these complain is making my woman feel very bad and she used to cry to me every time that my sister is impossible to please. Anything she does in the house,my sister will complain and she knows she has no where else to go to.
So I used to tell her to come to my place and stay until night,so she can go back to my sister’s place.We thought that is good to avoid quarrels. Last month,my woman called me late at night that she was sleeping in her room when she felt someone touching her,she woke up to find my sister’s husband trying to force himself on her. She was crying and I told her to calm down.
I asked where my sister was,she said in her room. So, I called my sister and told her what my woman just told me. All hell broke loose,saying that she knew it. That I brought a Jezebel to scatter her marriage. I was surprised but I couldn’t go to their house cos it was late around 1.40am already.
