“If you Can’t Pay my Bill, Don’t Ask for My Number” — Baddie Sets Dating Rules for 2026

A lady has sparked conversation online after sharing her rules for dating, insisting that anyone approaching her must first be willing to cover her expenses.

According to the woman, the first step in any interaction should be a demonstration of capability and respect.

Lady says men incapable of paying her bills should stay away

“If you see me walking on the road or in a restaurant and you want to approach me, you should be capable of paying for my bill,” she said. “If you can’t pay my bill, don’t approach me. Your first question should be, ‘How much is the food? How much is your bill? Can I pay for it?’ That will warrant me to give you my number.”

She added that she refuses to give out her contact details without this exchange. “If you approach me and ask for my number without offering to cover my bill first, I won’t even answer you. I blame those girls that give out their number without any exchange or something. You guys should learn manners,” she said.

The video, which has gone viral, has drawn mixed reactions online. Some users mocked her approach, while others agreed with her insistence on accountability in dating.

Social media reactions:

@Lifesorchard: “Let’s stop posting these foolish videos in 2026 please”

@Overhype: “See her face like plastic rubber ”

@mz_sookiee: “Stop disgracing women please. Go and get a job and pay your bills”

@OsagiecT: “I don’t want to say what’s on my mind! You guys will hate me.”

Watch the video below