If you are a man, married and you have children, get up now and go and do a DNA test on those kids! Don’t say you trust or love your wife! Get up now and do a DNA test so you will save your head and sanity!
You know how it is when you are watching someone and they think they are making a fool of you when they don’t know you already know their secret?
That is just the case between me and Janet, my wife.
Every single day that I sleep beside her and wake up to look at her, I laugh. Especially when she comes at me with that loving wife personae.
Truth it, when I first found out that the two kids Janet pushed on me as my children; Mathew and Jane, are not my kids, I was filled with shock!
Shock, bitterness and anger.
After the anger and shock and bitterness had dissipated, I had started wondering about the whole situation with surprise. How did my gentle and sweet Janet cheat on me to the point of bringing two children who are not mine into my home?
How did my Janet who I felt could not even hurt a fly go to another man and sleep with him without protection, get pregnant, not once but twice and pin the kids on me? And while doing all this, she never gave me any reason to feel she was cheating on me.
The question now is; why did I decide to carry out a secret DNA test on Mathew and Jane?
Well, if you know me before now, you would know that I deeply loved my wife and treated her like she was the most special thing in the world.
I always told my friends how humble and kind and loyal my wife was.
My best friend, Kunle, also loved his wife deeply and made sure to sing her praises to high heavens every single time we were together.
Then from out of the blues, he got an anonymous call from someone who told him his three children were not his. Kunle was shocked to his bone marrows. He couldn’t stand the thought that his wife had cheated on him and brought home three kids he had been taking care of from someone else!
I had managed to calm him down and got him to do a secret DNA test on the kids and the result proved the anonymous caller right; his three children were not biologically his. Added to that was a revelation from the doctor that Kunle had low sperm count and couldn’t father a child at the state he is. He needed to be treated before he could stand the chance of fathering kids biologically.
Kunle had been devastated and the whole thing had changed his life. He ended his marriage with his wife and became a recluse because he felt the whole world knew his predicament and were laughing at him.
I remember how my wife, Janet, was bitter about the whole situation and blamed Kunle’s wife for what she did.
That had made me happy. Thank God I had a wife who was decent and true and loyal and would never do such a thing to me. Her anger with Kunle’s wife alone reassured me that my own wife would never do such a thing to me.
But I don’t know where it came from, but the feeling that I should just carry out a DNA test on my kids kept ringing on my head and mind.
I couldn’t do anything without thinking whether Mathew and Jane were mine.
I noticed that after Kunle’s issue with his wife, my wife, Janet became more loving and sweet and nice towards me. She would close from her business earlier and rush back home to make sure she had food ready for me before I got home from the office.
But all of that didn’t stop me from just thinking about my children and whether they were mine or not.
So two months after Kunle found out his children were not biologically his, I decided to take the plunge and take my kids to carry out the DNA test.
I didn’t think too much about it after I had gone for the test with the kids and was waiting for the results.
As a matter of fact, I wasn’t worried anymore. I just told myself that my kids were mine. Janet is not the cheating type. Not to talk of bringing another man’s children into my home.
So when I was called to come for the test, I had gone there with the conviction in my mind that my kids were biologically mine and I had just wasted my money carrying out a DNA test.
I was wrong.
Mathew and Jane were confirmed as not mine biologically!
