At 60, I Embrace Life With Gratitude, Knowing That Each Day Is An Opportunity To Grow, Love And Make A Difference – Pastor Gabriel Kayode Ogunbiyi

“Success is not just about wealth or status – it’s about living a life of purpose, impact, and fulfilment”.

Pastor Gabriel Olukayode Ogunbiyi trained as a communication strategist, and he is the author of the book What Do You Want?’ He holds a master’s degree in Communication Arts from the prestigious University of Ibadan, Ibadan. Nigeria. He also holds a postgraduate Diploma in Theology from Christ Redeemers College (CRC) in partnership with Middlesex University, UK. He worked in many corporate organisations before he was called into the ministry as a pastor. He has been a pastor in The Redeemed Christian Church of God for over two decades and is the pastor in charge of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Rivers of Living Water, Thamesmead, London, UK. He is also the CEO of Perfect Facilities Service Limited, a company that specialises in building repairs, maintenance, and cleaning services. He is a consummate teacher of the Word of God, which he teaches with passion and clarity. He is a great prayer intercessor and evangelist. He hosts the popular monthly interdenominational prayer and success empowerment programme ‘Hour of Glory’, which attracts people from different ethnic backgrounds. He is married to Pastor (Mrs) Florence Ogunbiyi and they are blessed with four wonderful children. Pastor Ogunbiyi tells the story of his life in this interview with Oloye Ademola Akinbola, Publisher of The Podium International Magazine.

Congratulations, Pastor Kay, on your 60th birthday. How do you feel?

Thank you so much for the kind wishes! Turning 60 is a milestone that fills me with gratitude and reflection. I feel blessed for the experience, the lessons learned, and the wonderful people I’ve met along the way. There is a sense of wisdom and confidence that comes with this stage of life, and I’m embracing it with excitement for what’s ahead. Age is just a number – it’s the attitude and outlook that truly matter.

Age is just a number. You don’t even look your age. So, tell us, how the journey has been. What has life taught you at 60?

The journey of 60 years has been an incredible mix of highs and lows, lessons, and blessings. Life has taught me that every challenge carries a lesson and every joy is worth cherishing. I’ve learned the value of patience, the power of resilience, and the importance of kindness. Relationships matter more than material things, and time is the most precious gift we have. I actually mentioned the value and importance of Time in my new book, ‘The Journey of Life: Inspiring messages for all seasons.’ At 60, I embrace life with gratitude, knowing that each day is an opportunity to grow, love, and make a difference.

That is awesome. Tell us about your birth, parentage, and childhood

I was born in Minna, present-day Niger State in the northern part of Nigeria. I was born into the family of Pa Titus Tunde & Mrs Emily Ogunbiyi (formerly known as Campbell). My parents are late now. They were wonderful parents to me. I had my primary education at Baptist Day Primary School, Zaria (the school was later renamed Dogon Bauchi LEA Primary School). After my Primary 7 education, I relocated with my parents to Lagos, and I was enrolled at Progress College (now State High School, Oko-Oba) for my secondary school education. After my secondary education, I joined the Nigerian Railway Corporation as a Station Master. I later proceeded for my tertiary education.

What was growing up like? Share with us fond memories of your childhood

Growing up was a beautiful and unforgettable journey filled with joy and valuable lessons. Childhood was a time of innocence, adventure, and strong family bonds. I remember playing outside until the sun set, sharing laughter with friends, and the warmth of family gatherings. Life was simpler then – no distractions of technology, just pure human connections. Some of my fondest memories include going to church and singing with adult choirs and playing football with friends with bare feet. There were no football boots in those days. You get injured and still enjoy playing with friends. Again, you were surrounded by people who loved you genuinely.

Interesting. That was the era of innocence. Would you say you are fulfilled at 60?

At 60, I can say that fulfillment comes from appreciating the journey rather than just reaching a destination. Life is a journey, and life has given me countless experiences – both joyful and challenging – that have shaped me into the person I am today. I am grateful to God, grateful for the love of family and friends, the lessons learned, and the opportunity I’ve had to make a difference. While there are always new dreams to chase and things to accomplish, I embrace this stage of life with gratitude and contentment, knowing that fulfillment comes from living with purpose, love, and a positive outlook.

What are the challenges you have faced in life, either in the home front, work, career, or business?

Life’s journey has been filled with both triumphs and challenges, each shaping me into the person I am today. On the home front, I have navigated the responsibilities of family life, learning the importance of patience, understanding, and unconditional love. In my career and work, I’ve faced obstacles – whether it was adapting to change, overcoming setbacks, or striving to balance professional and personal life. Business, too, has had its share of uncertainties and risks, but perseverance and resilience have always been the key. Through it all, I’ve learned that obstacles are growth opportunities, and with faith, hard work, and the support of family and loved ones, anything is possible.

Tell us about the high and low points of your life

Life is a journey of highs and lows, and each moment has played a part in shaping who I am today. The high points have been moments of love, achievement, and personal growth – seeing my family thrive, seeing my church members doing well and being transformed, reaching career milestones, and experiencing the joy of meaningful relationships.  These moments have filled my heart with gratitude and purpose. At the same time, the low points have tested my strength and resilience – facing personal losses, navigating setbacks, betrayals, and overcoming challenges. But through it all, I’ve learned that struggles build character and every challenge carries a lesson. Life is about embracing both the sunshine and the storms, knowing that each phase brings its wisdom and growth.

What are the secrets of your good looks and longevity? What are your health secrets?

God is the first secret. The Bible says in John 15:5 that ‘without Jesus you cannot do anything’. So, He is the first secret. Other secrets are just a combination of a positive mindset, a balanced lifestyle, and taking care of both body and soul. I believe in staying active by exercising, eating nutritious foods and getting enough rest. But beyond that, I’ve learned that laughter, love, and a stress-free mindset are just as important for overall well-being. For example, I don’t interfere with what does not concern me. Surrounding myself with good company, staying curious about life, and embracing each day with gratitude have also played a huge role. At the end of the day, true beauty and longevity come from a joyful heart and a life well-lived.

Walk us through your academic journey and work experience

Like I mentioned earlier, after my secondary education, I joined the Nigerian Railway Corporation (NRC) as a Station Master. I later proceeded on study leave to read Mass Communication at the then Ogun State Polytechnic, Abeokuta (now Moshood Abiola Polytechnic). After my Higher National Diploma in Mass Communication, I served the compulsory One-year National Youth Service Corps with NTA in Port-Harcourt, Rivers State. Afterwards, I returned to the Nigeria Railway Corporation. I was promoted to the position of Public Relations Officer on grade level 9. I later resigned from my appointment with the Railways and joined the largest private insurance company, Industrial & General Insurance Company (IGI) as a management trainee in the Corporate Affairs department.

Not satisfied with my qualifications, I enrolled for a master’s degree at the University of Ibadan, where I was awarded a Master’s degree in Communication Arts. I enrolled for an executive diploma course in Insurance at the University of Lagos. I rose to become Assistant Manager (Protocol & Media), working directly with the Executive Vice Chairman.  May I also add that I also doubled as Personal Assistant to the late Dr. Lateef Adegbite. I resigned from IGI in October 2004.

I relocated to the United Kingdom in December 2004. In between these periods, I was ordained a Deacon in the Redeemed Christian Church of God in 2003 and was posted to head a parish that same year. In the UK, I have worked as a mental health practitioner. I later started my own business, known as Perfect Facilities Services Limited, a company that provides building maintenance and cleaning services. I also Pastor a branch of the Redeemed Christian Church of God known as the Rivers of Living Water in Thamesmead, London.

You are a successful man by all standards. What is your definition of success? What are your success principles?

To me, success is not just about wealth or status – it’s about living a life of purpose, impact, and fulfillment. True success is finding happiness in what you do, nurturing meaningful relationships, and leaving a positive mark on the lives of others. It’s about growth, resilience, and staying true to your values. My success principles are simple:

1. Hard work & Discipline – Nothing great comes without effort and consistency.

2. Integrity & Honesty – Success is meaningful only when built on a foundation of trust

3. Lifelong Learning – Growth never stops; every challenge is a lesson

4. Resilience & Adaptability – Life will test you, but persistence is key

5. Gratitude & Giving Back – True success is not just about what you gain but what you give. At the end of the day, success is about waking up each morning with peace, purpose, and a heart full of gratitude to God Almighty.

That is so true. What are the things you consider as your major achievements in life?

As I look back on my journey, I am grateful for the many achievements that have shaped my life. My greatest achievements are not just in titles or material gains but in the impact I’ve made and the lessons I’ve learnt. On the personal front, I consider building a strong, loving family and maintaining meaningful relationships as one of my biggest successes. Seeing my family, loved ones and my church members thrive and being a source of support and guidance brings me immense fulfilment. Professionally, I take pride in the milestones I’ve reached in my career/business – overcoming challenges, growing in my field, and mentoring others along the way. Contributing to my community and making a difference, whether through leadership, service, or philanthropy, is also something I hold dear. Above all, my greatest achievement is living a life of purpose, resilience, and gratitude – embracing both successes and setbacks as stepping stones to growth. The journey continues, and I look forward to making even more meaningful contributions in the years ahead.

What are the projects you are working on at this time?

At this stage in my life, I am focused on projects that inspire, educate, and leave a lasting impact. One of my major endeavours right now is my writing. I have just completed two books, which I am incredibly excited about. These books reflect my experiences, lessons learned, and insights gained over the years, and I hope they will inspire and benefit others. Beyond writing, I am also engaged in projects that promote personal growth, mentorship, and community development. I believe in using my experience to guide and empower others, and I look forward to seeing initiatives grow. The journey continues, and I am excited for what is ahead.

Where do you expect to be in 10 years? What are your short and long-term plans?

In 10 years, I see myself continuing to live with purpose, fulfillment, and impact. I hope to remain in good health, vibrant, surrounded by family and loved ones, and actively contributing to areas that matter to me – whether through writing, mentorship, or community service. In the short term, my focus is on sharing my knowledge and experiences through my recently written books, engaging in meaningful projects, and continuing to learn and grow. I also aim to nurture relationships, embrace new opportunities, and enjoy life to the fullest. In the long term, I hope to leave a lasting legacy – whether through my work, the people I’ve influenced, or the values I’ve upheld. My goal is to make a difference, stay inspired, and always approach life with gratitude and a forward-thinking mindset.

Comment on the state of the Nigerian economy and how Nigeria can be made a better place

The Nigerian economy, like many others, has faced its share of global challenges, ranging from inflation and unemployment to infrastructure deficits and governance issues. However, Nigeria is a country with immense potential, rich in natural and human resources. The key to unlocking this potential lies in good leadership, accountability, and a collective shift in mindset. If our leaders can be sincere in their responsibilities, prioritising the welfare of the people over personal gain, implementing policies that foster economic growth, and investing in education, health care, and infrastructure  – Nigeria will be on the path to true progress. Leadership would be about service, not self-interest. At the same time, citizens also have a crucial role to play. If every Nigerian commits to integrity, hard work, and patriotism rather than chasing materialism at all costs, the nation will experience a positive transformation. Change begins with every individual, and together, we can build a Nigeria that thrives on fairness, innovation, and shared prosperity. United, we stand.

Who is Pastor Gabriel Olukayode Ogunbiyi? Which words best describe you?

Pastor Gabriel Olukayode Ogunbiyi is a servant of God, a leader, a mentor, and a passionate advocate for faith, integrity, and positive transformation. Over the years, I have dedicated my life to spreading the gospel, guiding people toward spiritual growth, and making a meaningful impact in my community. If I were to describe myself in a few words, they would be: faithful, purpose-driven, compassionate, resilient, and visionary. I believe in the power of faith to transform lives, the importance of integrity in leadership, and the need for perseverance in the face of challenges. My journey has been shaped by a deep commitment to God, service to humanity, and a desire to leave a lasting legacy of love, wisdom, and impact.