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So, marriage to her is not the typical perspective. She travels alot to give consultation and lectures. As a married man, I found myself almost alone in the marriage. I tried to focus on my job and my daughter with Rebecca who spends some weekends with me. It was during our daughter’s fifth birthday planning that things went happened.
Daisy decided to travel during my daughter’s birthday. Anyway, myself and Rebecca had the most amazing party for our daughter. After the party, my daughter was sick and we rushed her to the hospital. Her mother had to spend the night with her in the hospital. I couldn’t leave both of them alone, so I stayed too.
While both of us were watching over our child, we started talking about why our relationship didn’t work out when we were together. We talked about our regrets and so many other things. Not knowing ur daughter was awake and hearing us.
It was at this point, my daughter started pleading with me and her mother to be together. I tried to explain to her that her mother is married and I am married but she cried and said she wants her parents to be together. The next day, my mind was still troubled and I called Rebecca to ask her if we could talk. She agreed.
My wife was still not back and soon as Rebecca walked in my door, I kissed her and she didn’t even resist. Rebecca and I made love. It was not planned but we realized we both still had feelings for each other. Again, Rebecca was not protected. I was not. We talked and talked and I asked her to return to me and I would return to her.
Rebecca told me that she would not like to betray her husband so I should give her time. We tried to avoid each other after that day cos it was obvious, we were thinking of each other. When my wife got back, I tried to focus on my marriage but she also was too occupied with work and so, we concentrated on our individual lives.
Exactly six weeks later, Rebecca called me that she is pregnant. And she knows its for me. Rebecca has been married for almost a two years, she said she has never missed her period one day. But after we met, she missed her period. That was when I realized this was the hand of God and thought to myself: I have made yet another mistake.
How do I tell my wife that my married ex is pregnant for me? I know our marriage is not perfect but this will break her heart. Rebecca too is confused on how to tell her husband. Maybe we should tell them both (my wife and Rebecca’s husband) together. That we are sorry but we made a mistake and we do not want to be married anymore to them? Either way, this is messed up.
I am completely sorry for the way things have panned out …I know though that coming back to Rebecca would make us and our daughter very happy. We need to take a decision quickly before Rebecca’s belly starts to show.
please I need your candid advise
source: Livelystones
