11 steps towards strengthening marriage after a stain of infidelity

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It shatters trust, leaving both partners wounded, angry, and uncertain about the future of their relationship.

While it might seem impossible to rebuild a marriage after such a breach, it is not entirely hopeless.

Many couples have successfully navigated the treacherous waters of infidelity and emerged with stronger, more resilient marriages.

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This article explores the challenging journey of healing and rebuilding trust after infidelity and provides practical guidance on how to strengthen your marriage.

The first step in the healing process is to establish open and honest communication between partners.

Both spouses need to express their feelings, concerns, and fears. The unfaithful partner must be willing to answer questions about the affair truthfully.

Transparency is crucial in rebuilding trust, and it begins with acknowledging the betrayal and its impact.

Infidelity is a complex issue, and sometimes, professional guidance is necessary.

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Consider seeking therapy from a licensed marriage counselor or a therapist experienced in dealing with infidelity.

A skilled therapist can provide a safe space for both partners to express themselves, mediate discussions, and guide the healing process.

Healing from infidelity takes time, and both partners must be patient.

The betrayed spouse should not rush forgiveness, and the unfaithful partner should be understanding of their partner’s need for time and space.

Forgiveness is a critical component of moving forward, but it cannot be rushed or forced.

Rebuilding trust is a gradual process. The unfaithful spouse must be committed to demonstrating trustworthiness through actions, not just words.

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Consistency in behaviour, honesty, and transparency will help the betrayed partner gradually rebuild trust.

Discuss and establish clear boundaries within your marriage. This includes guidelines for appropriate communication with the opposite sex, how to handle situations that may lead to temptation, and setting up a plan for rebuilding intimacy.

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SANYA ONAYOADE is a graduate of Mass Communication and a Master of Communication Arts degree holder from the University of Ibadan. He has attended local and international courses on Media, Branding, Public Relations and Corporate Governance in many institutions including the University of Pittsburgh; Reuters Foundation of Rhodes University, South Africa and Lagos Business School. He has worked in many newspaper houses including The Guardian and The Punch. He was the pioneer Corporate Affairs Manager of Odua Telecoms Ltd, and later Head of Business Development and Marketing of Nigerian Aviation Handling Company (NAHCO Plc).

He has led business teams to several countries in the US, Asia and Europe; and was part of an Aviation investment drive in West Africa. He has also driven media and brand consultancy for a few organizations such as the British Council, Industrial Training Fund, PKF Audit/Accounting Firm and Nigeria Stability and Reconciliation Programme. He is a Fellow of Freedom House, Washington DC, and also Fellow of Institute of Brand Management of Nigeria. Sanya is a member of Nigerian Institute of Public Relations (NIPR), Advertising Practitioners Council of Nigeria (APCON) and Project Management Institute (PMI). He is a 1998 Commonwealth Media Awards winner and the Author of A Decade Of Democracy.
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Ademola AKINBOLA is an author, publisher, trainer, digital marketing strategist, and a brand development specialist with nearly three decades of experience in the areas of branding, communication, corporate reputation management, business development, organizational change management, and digital marketing.

He is the Founder and Head Steward at BrandStewards Limited, a brand and reputation management consultancy. He is also the Publisher of The Podium International Magazine, Ile-Oluji Times, and Who’s Who in Ile-Oluji.

He had a successful media practice at The Guardian, Punch and This Day.

He started his brand management career at Owena Bank as Media Relations Manager before joining Prudent Bank (now Polaris Bank) as the pioneer Head of Corporate Affairs.

The British Council appointed him as Head of Communication and Marketing to co-ordinate branding and reputation management activities at its Lagos, Abuja, Kano and Port Harcourt offices.

In 2007, he was recruited as the Head of Corporate Planning and Strategy for the Nigerian Aviation Handling company. He led on the branding, strategic planning and stakeholder management support function.

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Ademola obtained a M.Sc. Degree in Digital Marketing & Web Analytics from Dublin Institute of Technology in 2016, and the Master of Communication Arts degree of the University of Ibadan in 1997. He had previously obtained a Higher National Diploma (with Upper Credit) in Mass Communication from Ogun State Polytechnic, Abeokuta.

He has published several articles and authored five management books.

He has benefitted from several domestic and international training programmes on Brand Management, Corporate Communications, Change Management and Organizational Strategy.
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