I have received all your emails on my assertions on the intertwined issues of virginity and bride price, and I stand by my position that paying bride price for non virgins is extortion, not tradition.

I have already given Scriptural, traditional and historical authority to back my assertion. It is your choice to accept the truth, or reject it. But as 2 Corinthians 13:8 says, “we cannot do anything against the truth, but only for the truth.”
Sending me emails insulting and threatening me over the issue will neither change my mind or affect the truth. I am used to threats. Obidients have sent me fiercer threats than you and never even violated my home. Yet, have you seen me stop taking on Peter Obi?
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You cannot believe the Bible and disbelieve me, because Exodus 22:17 is crystal clear about bride price being the exclusive preserve of virgins. And you should not, as a Lukumi Yoruba, even argue with me, because it is our culture, known as the aso asa Ibale tradition.
Others with a lower culture can have a traditional basis to reject my admonitions, and I will not begrudge them.
But if you are Lukumi Yoruba, Jewish, Christian, or Muslim, your culture and ecclesiastical laws is unambiguously against premarital and extramarital sex. And for all of these, except Islam, it is also against bride price for non virgins.
Let me point out that this does not apply in cases of rape, of accidental loss of virginity. However, (and this is just an opinion, I have no law or tradition to back this), you need to tell the man seeking your hand in marriage the credible circumstances that led to your wrongful deflowering.
Our society is hexed because we are vexed with people who are sexed and perplexed and that’s why we as a people are deflexed and annexed to negative moral values.

One million emails dissing me will not change my stand nor alter Scripture or tradition. Stop engaging in extramarital and premarital sex. And if you can’t then do not extort young men to pay for a virtue that you either have given other men for free or used to secure favours.
Thanks and may God bless you.
Reno Omokri

