Sandra’s mother broke up with me after that. She did not want to be seen as someone who slept with the same guy as her daughter. I begged her and begged her cos I really was in love with her. She refused and encouraged me to find a girl my age. As painful as it is, I moved on. I had to get an apartment away from my parent’s estate. That was in January.
Now, Sandra and I got talking two weeks ago on Instagram. She said she and her mother spoke and they have reconciled. That her mother understands that Sandra is in love with me and so, to buy Sandra’s silence, not to inform her father of the affair with me, she has allowed Sandra to be with me.
I felt really hurt cos I don’t love Sandra as much as the mother. I told her I am not interested and that really broke her heart more. The mother called me and begged me to please give her daughter a chance. That she would do anything if I just obliged the daughter. I told her I did not lie about my feelings. I am in love with her and not her daughter.
Sandra called me a few days ago and asked me to come to the US for Summer. All expense paid she said. She wanted me to give her a chance to show me how she felt. She then brought up what if we get married? I could become a US citizen and I would relocate and we will be together in the US. She said her father, even though has never met me, already heard so many good things about me. Sammie told him we are good friends. I spoke to her father on phone. The man already thinks me and Sandra are in love.
Truth is, the offer from Sandra is tempting. I know I could grow to love her. She is stunning like I said and well mannered. And the fact that she is going out of her way to woo me, is making my head swell…I cannot lie. My only worry is: I hope I don’t mess this up. Cos, I may still have feelings for her mother. Feelings that I have suppressed. Will those feelings cost me in the future? when she becomes my mother-in-law, will I still have hots for her?
I know it’s easy to grow to love Sandra cos she is very attractive too but it feels weird. That I will be married to someone I had a relationship with her mother for almost seven months. Her mother said it’s fine. That her sleeping with me last year was because She was only just catching cruise with me. She was lonely, her husband being in the US and she was alone here.
Now, does this mean the coast is clear for me? Should I give Sandra’s offer consideration and go visit her in the US this summer and see how our relationship goes from there? This could change my life forever …a lot of guys would think I am lucky to have this offer. My family already thinks I have an American girlfriend. All they are seeing is a green card. I don’t blame them. I am just trying not to overthink things. What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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